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Language Supports for Autism

Ten ways to help a child with autism use more language, and the most important one: honor all forms of communication.

Illustration of a mother and child sitting on the floor playing with a toy dinosaur and colorful blocks.

Offer choices

Giving choices makes a child feel motivated to use more language. For example: “Should we play with blocks or cars?”

Give wait time

When you ask a question, give the child extra time to think and answer.

Model

Talk about what you and the child are doing to show how to use language in different places and situations, even when using AAC.

Follow the child’s lead

Notice what the child likes or is curious about, and talk about those things while you play together.

Open-ended questions

Ask questions that get more than a “yes” or “no” answer. For example: instead of asking “Is that a car?” you can ask, “What do you have?”

Sabotage

Create situations where the child might need to ask for help. For example, give them cereal without a spoon and wait to see if they ask for it.

Positive reinforcement

Give praise to help the child feel confident and encourage them to communicate more. For example, “Great talking!” or “I love how you asked for help.”

Repetition

Using the same words or phrases many times can help the child learn language more easily.

Contrived misunderstanding

Pretend you don’t know something about a topic, which gives the child a chance to explain, add details or correct you.

Expand on speech

Add words to the child’s speech to make it more complete. For example, if the child says “blue ball,” you can say, “That’s right! The ball is blue.”

Most importantly, honor all forms of communication!